Here’s the best definition: Good sex allows you to feel good about yourself.

Here’s the best definition: Good sex allows you to feel good about yourself.

It’s Utopia, the destroyed city of Atlantis, and Mount Olympus all folded into one: the idea that people might have good—sorry, render that great—sex years into monogamy. But what in the event it’s not just a fantasy? Can you imagine mind-blowing intercourse actually is attainable in a long- (and long-long-long-) name union? And what if we’ve become looking at close sex—what it is and ways to have it—from totally a bad views?

Meet your “sexual self.” This is one of the fascinating ideas explored by psychiatrist Stephen Snyder, M.D., in his book Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship. Snyder posits so it’s the sexual home that retains the key to all of that fantastic sex, that mindfulness may be the greatest turn-on there can be, and that sexual narcissism is not only appropriate; it’s necessity.…